5 Steps to Make the Back to School Transition Easier

By Bree Minger, AMFT

The end of summer can bring up a lot of different feelings for both parents and children. While some feel excited, others are dreading the transition from summer to school. Often, establishing a back to school routine can be helpful to prepare everyone for the change in schedules. Below you will find some helpful tips to make the transition smoother and more enjoyable for everyone in the family! 

Create a back to school celebration

Celebrations or events can be very helpful in marking a transition and helping the whole family to process their emotions and feel prepared for the change. Whether it is shopping for school supplies together, getting a new pair of shoes, going out for a treat the last weekend of summer, or spending the day together as a family creates an opportunity to celebrate back-to-school. 

Re-establish bedtimes

If bedtimes have gotten out of routine during the summer, start putting your child to bed a little earlier each night leading up to the start of school. A staggered transition like this allows children to gradually return to normal bedtimes and feel more rested before school starts. Focus on creating an environment that is free of distractions, and allows the child to slow down and feel calm. 

Check in about each school day

Once the first day of school happens, be sure to check in with your child and see how their day was and each day thereafter. Intentionally listen and learn about their teachers, their favorite subjects and new friends they meet. Keeping lines of communication open is very important to establish a strong connection between parents and children. This way, when challenges arise, trust is established for your child to open up about a difficult subject, unhealthy friendships or even bullying. 

Eat dinner together as a family 

Research shows that time together as a family is important and especially mealtime. With the busyness of back-to-school including activities and homework, it is hard to spend time together. Meal time is a perfect opportunity to check in and continue to create bonds. Meal time has proven to create healthy eating habits, decrease future mental health struggles, and improve communication skills. 

 Create homework stations 

Transitioning from summer back to school can make it challenging to focus on tasks like homework. Setting up an area in your home that is specifically designed to be a homework station can help your child know it is time to focus. Have your child help in creating the space so they know they will feel comfortable studying there. Take some time to remove distractions (e.g. any type of screen) and add a clock to the area so your child knows how long they have been reading or studying, etc.

We wish everyone a happy and healthy return to school! 

Sources: Eating Together At Family Meals

Back to School Blues: Tips and Tricks for Helping Your Kids Study

By Nicole Marino, AMFT

With school being a few months in now, kids are back to doing homework and studying. The transition back into work from the fun of the summer can be tough. It can be hard for kids to switch back into having to do homework and focus on lessons throughout the day. It is important to make sure your kids are having an effective and productive study time.

Here are some helpful tips for any parents struggling to get their kids to complete homework assignments or study for tests/quizzes:

Eliminate any distractions

• Kids can be distracted by things in their environment such as toys, tv, music, siblings, electronic devices, etc. so it is important to make sure they have a clean and clear study space where they can just focus on the tasks at hand. It is also a good idea for kids to have a specific space where they do their homework preferably not in the same space as where they like to relax or go to sleep. It can be helpful and more motivating for kids to have a space that they can associate with being focused and working.

Break things up into smaller tasks

• It can be very overwhelming to cram a lot of work or studying into one session or night so make sure to break up the work. Break large tasks or assignments into smaller ones. It can help kids feel more accomplished by completing each smaller task rather than getting discouraged by a large task that takes a long time.

Create a schedule

• Creating a homework/study schedule can give kids more structure to their after-school time. They know when to start their homework, and when they can have breaks, have dinner, go to sleep, etc. Having a schedule can also help keep them focused and on the task at hand.

Take breaks

• It is so helpful to take breaks when it comes to maintaining focus. When we get tired or distracted, it probably means it is time to take a break. Maybe that means taking a break after a specific amount of time has passed or when a certain homework assignment or task is completed. It can be an opportunity for kids to have a reset and some time to recharge before getting back to it.

Have snacks and water

• As discussed above with taking breaks, it is also important that kids are not hungry or parched during their homework or studying time. Having snacks and water before studying (or during breaks) can help with focus and energy levels. Making sure kids are getting enough hours of sleep each night also helps with focus and energy.

Motivate and help when needed

• Parents are obviously a big factor when it comes to implementing productive study habits. Kids need help with encouragement and positive reinforcement from parents to help motivate them to maintain their hard work and habits. If kids are struggling, try to stay patient when it comes to helping them, or finding a tutor or teacher than can better guide them on how to solve the problems.

It is not always easy to get kids to study or do their homework, but it is important for parents to stay diligent and consistent with implementing these habits and tips. The more they do these tricks, the more natural it will become for them to continue doing them after school each day.