5 Steps to Make the Back to School Transition Easier

By Bree Minger, AMFT

The end of summer can bring up a lot of different feelings for both parents and children. While some feel excited, others are dreading the transition from summer to school. Often, establishing a back to school routine can be helpful to prepare everyone for the change in schedules. Below you will find some helpful tips to make the transition smoother and more enjoyable for everyone in the family! 

Create a back to school celebration

Celebrations or events can be very helpful in marking a transition and helping the whole family to process their emotions and feel prepared for the change. Whether it is shopping for school supplies together, getting a new pair of shoes, going out for a treat the last weekend of summer, or spending the day together as a family creates an opportunity to celebrate back-to-school. 

Re-establish bedtimes

If bedtimes have gotten out of routine during the summer, start putting your child to bed a little earlier each night leading up to the start of school. A staggered transition like this allows children to gradually return to normal bedtimes and feel more rested before school starts. Focus on creating an environment that is free of distractions, and allows the child to slow down and feel calm. 

Check in about each school day

Once the first day of school happens, be sure to check in with your child and see how their day was and each day thereafter. Intentionally listen and learn about their teachers, their favorite subjects and new friends they meet. Keeping lines of communication open is very important to establish a strong connection between parents and children. This way, when challenges arise, trust is established for your child to open up about a difficult subject, unhealthy friendships or even bullying. 

Eat dinner together as a family 

Research shows that time together as a family is important and especially mealtime. With the busyness of back-to-school including activities and homework, it is hard to spend time together. Meal time is a perfect opportunity to check in and continue to create bonds. Meal time has proven to create healthy eating habits, decrease future mental health struggles, and improve communication skills. 

 Create homework stations 

Transitioning from summer back to school can make it challenging to focus on tasks like homework. Setting up an area in your home that is specifically designed to be a homework station can help your child know it is time to focus. Have your child help in creating the space so they know they will feel comfortable studying there. Take some time to remove distractions (e.g. any type of screen) and add a clock to the area so your child knows how long they have been reading or studying, etc.

We wish everyone a happy and healthy return to school! 

Sources: Eating Together At Family Meals