Happiness — Blog — Focht Family Practice

In today’s fast-paced, increasingly digital world, it’s easy to feel isolated, despite being constantly “connected”. We live in a time where the presence of community is more important than ever, yet more challenging to find. A study conducted at Harvard University with more than 700 participants found the main predictor of long-term health and happiness was the quality of the relationships a person had. Read more about the Harvard study here.

Humans are inherently social beings; we need connection to survive. It’s these connections that shape our identities and help us navigate the world. When we feel supported, understood, and valued by others, we are more likely to experience higher levels of happiness and satisfaction.

In times of difficulty, emotional distress, or personal struggles, having a solid support system can make all the difference. Whether it’s family, friends, a therapist, or even a group of strangers united by a common cause, support networks offer validation, comfort, and empathy. Social interactions help buffer stress, reduce feelings of loneliness, and promote resilience. Communities provide a sense of belonging and a framework of connection that nurtures both the individual and the group.

Community is all around us. In our homes, schools, work, places of worship, gyms, libraries. There is so much bravery and vulnerability in asking for help and support; it can be a uniquely healing experience when you learn you are not alone in your struggles. In tough times, emotional support can provide a safe space for continued vulnerability, helping you to open up and process difficult emotions. Just knowing someone is listening can provide immense relief.

Additionally, emotional support is reciprocal. By vulnerably asking your community what you need, you normalize this behavior for others, creating a cycle of care that fosters mutual respect and trust, strengthening the bonds of your community.

When we help one another, we create a more compassionate, cooperative world. Acts of kindness, big or small, have the potential to ripple outward, influencing our wider circles and even society as a whole. Strong communities build stronger societies, and this collective strength is key to tackling global issues, from climate change to mental health crises.

Ultimately, the importance of community cannot be overstated. It’s the foundation upon which we can build resilience, personal growth, and a sense of purpose. Whether you're going through a tough time or enjoying success, having a supportive community means you don’t have to go it alone. By leaning on others and offering support in return, we utilize the increased connection of our world to better our long-term health and happiness.